nonbinary people who are okay with gendered pronouns/names are still nonbinary and if a nonbinary person tells you they’re okay with gendered pronouns then it’s really not your place to say that their gender identity is less valid because of that, even if you yourself are nonbinary. Gender is different for everyone and there’s no “valid way” to be a certain gender the only validation you need is your own.
Player: Can I loot his stuff?
DM: You can, but he’s a spy, so you’ll have to pay for the lawsuit.
Player: I have a load of money.
DM: Like how much money?
Player: No its an item, “load of money,” I have eighteen of them.